Expectations

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Every now and then Mum goes to an event where she couldn’t take us. That’s ok. At least now, Lulu and I can hang out with each other. She went to see The Miracle Club, a movie currently in the theatres.

The movie opens with the story of a prodigal daughter, Chrissy, returning to the small town of Ballygar in Ireland after 40 long years. The circumstances surrounding her return, specifically her mother’s funeral, reveal the strained relationship she had with her mother’s friends, who were not too thrilled to see her. Gradually, the truth about what happened all those years ago begins to emerge.

Simultaneously, we learn about the shared dream of the three women from the Catholic parish in Ballygar. Their dream to embark on a journey to the sacred French town of Lourdes, each with a hope that God will grant them a miracle and change a physical ailment in their lives but also to experience a taste of freedom from their daily household responsibilities. For Chrissy, she seems in need of a kind of reconciliation with her late mother and the women of the town.

“The Miracle Club” is a delightful movie that offers light-hearted moments through the humorous antics of these well-casted ladies. The talented cast skillfully delivers powerful messages about pain, hope and forgiveness, reminding us of the importance of letting go and finding peace in our hearts.

Throughout the film, we witness a blend of faith and doubt, resentment and healing, and the presence of secrets that need to be uncovered. There comes a pivotal moment when the authenticity of the sacred place of Lourdes is questioned by the women. It is during this time that the wise Father of the Parish, who accompanies the women on their journey, offers these comforting words: “You don’t come to Lourdes for a miracle, but for the strength to go on when there is no miracle.”

But in the end there were small miracles that they had not expected. The miracles these ladies experienced might not have been the ones they were looking for when they set out on their journey, but God gave them miracles, nonetheless, but in small unexpected ways.

“The Miracle Club” is a film that beautifully explores themes of forgiveness, faith, and the transformative power of unexpected miracles. Through its heartfelt storytelling and charming characters, it leaves viewers with a sense of warmth and hope, reminding us to stay open to the miracles that can unfold in our own lives, even when they come in the smallest of ways.

May’s comment: The characters in “The Miracle Club” had such high expectations for their pilgrimage to Lourdes and played such a significant role in the process of manifesting desires and creating positive change in life.

Expectations are an integral part of our existence. From personal relationships and career goals to everyday experiences, they shape our perceptions and drive our actions. However, it is the delicate balance between setting reasonable expectations and falling victim to unrealistic ones that makes our day.

Too high expectations can strain relationships, causing conflicts and misunderstandings. Expecting others to meet lofty standards may result in feelings of resentment and disillusionment when they do not meet our imagined criteria.

My own experiences with expectations, has more often than not, brought about disappointment. So ever since I heard someone say she would like to give up having EXPECTATIONS, I have been thinking a lot about it for myself.

I don’t think we can fully give up expectations. Probably managing them helps mitigate disappointment and frustration. Like the four women in the movie who left Lourdes disappointed that the miracles they expected were not fulfilled, it was also a reminder that there are everyday miracles around us. And there are things we least expect that nicely surprises us.

Life is a journey filled with surprises and uncertainties, and it’s how we manage our expectations that can make all the difference.

This is a review of the movie, The Miracle Club, starring Maggie Smith, Kathy Bates, Laura Linney, Agnes O’Casey.

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